Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Trust in love fool


Back on the topic of relationships again. Aight we all know there are things in a relationship that are essential for it to flourish and sustain. Communication is key but furthermost I think trust is the most important ingredient for a mixture of pleasure and fulfillment. It is hard to be in a relationship when someone you love is either lying to you(that u know of) or has done some things in the past that creates this mistrust.

You have to be fully committed to a relationship if not then you are liable to cheat. Cheating not only involves sleeping with some one but also emotional cheating;giving ones time and feelings to another. My thing is dont lie just be truthful;honesty is the best policy. If ur significant other breaks up with you then the NEXT NIGHT go sees another person is that real trustworthiness? Most probly would say no but different strokes for different folks.

Question how far would you go to find out if someone has been faithful or truthful?? Would you stalk them or have some one investigate(see Cheaters). Love makes you do crazy things. For those that are or were in a relationship but were/are cheating(see above) or otherwise doin dirt please come clean it is for the best. When you are truthful to others u are honest with urself. I know it is hard to tell the truth and it is easier to lie but really how does that make u feel when u hurt the other person; where is ur conscience?

Relationships are a 9-5 plus overtime; ur gonna put in work. So unless it is just unbearable(i.e. he/she is cheating or abusive) you betta hold on cuz good people are hard to find. Think before u venture off and wanna play the field cuz everybody doesn't play fair.


1 comment:

  1. thank you for sharing that...as i experience the ups and downs of love and relationship your blog seems to always shed some type of insight or provocative thought on my situation...thanks..peace and blessings

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