Trust in love fool

Back on the topic of relationships again. Aight we all know there are things in a relationship that are essential for it to flourish and sustain. Communication is key but furthermost I think trust is the most important ingredient for a mixture of pleasure and fulfillment. It is hard to be in a relationship when someone you love is either lying to you(that u know of) or has done some things in the past that creates this mistrust.

You have to be fully committed to a relationship if not then you are liable to cheat. Cheating not only involves sleeping with some one but also emotional cheating;giving ones time and feelings to another. My thing is dont lie just be truthful;honesty is the best policy. If ur significant other breaks up with you then the NEXT NIGHT go sees another person is that real trustworthiness? Most probly would say no but different strokes for different folks.

Question how far would you go to find out if someone has been faithful or truthful?? Would you stalk them or have some one investigate(see Cheaters). Love makes you do crazy things. For those that are or were in a relationship but were/are cheating(see above) or otherwise doin dirt please come clean it is for the best. When you are truthful to others u are honest with urself. I know it is hard to tell the truth and it is easier to lie but really how does that make u feel when u hurt the other person; where is ur conscience?

Relationships are a 9-5 plus overtime; ur gonna put in work. So unless it is just unbearable(i.e. he/she is cheating or abusive) you betta hold on cuz good people are hard to find. Think before u venture off and wanna play the field cuz everybody doesn't play fair.

organically orgasmic

hello all the discussion is about organic ..well everything. I have been reading about organic food, clothing,etc. since I've been in college(graduated 2003). To me in this tainted world I guess clinging to things I feel that are unadulterated makes it all warm inside. But you really have to do ur research on the organic things you buy. There are a ton of organic items for sale but be a smart consumer. I go to Whole Foods a lot but dat shyt can get expensive. So unless u got money out the azz (please wash ur hands before giving to cashier) then i suggest u be frugal and buy what u can a little at a time.

Remember to do ur homework not just on organic things but the crap they are putting in the "regular" stuff. Dude do you know the put wax in fruit to make it look shiny(wtf??!!). Those chemicals that you put in ur hair(perms,etc) perpetuates manufacturing of things that are harmful to u and ur world. Organic is good for the environment and at the rate we are goin we need to more vigilant to halt the bad. So hop on the organic bandwagon(pulled by horses of course)!!! Do ur part people for a cleaner u and a cleaner environment.

When the shyt hits the fan...umm duck?

Greetings I am coming to you (a)live...lol. Wanted to rap to yall real quick about some craziness das been goin down lately. I am a proud alumnus of North Carolina State University(gooo pack!!) but we have come under some fire lately. I am sure you have heard(if not imma tell ya) the resignation of NCSUs chancellor James Oblinger and the firing of former lady(gov) Mary Easley.

Here is how it all went down(like I was there right..lol) : Mary Easley was working at the Provost Office at NCState around 2005. NCSU board chairman McQueen Campbell and James Oblinger(now former chancellor) hired Mary Easley on a 3 yr contract in 2005 reported to be $80,000/yr then got a 5 yr deal for about $850,000. She also had an annual increase of 88% annual pay raise for her job as executive-in-residence at NCSU which violates NCSU policy(dammit gurl). But that is not even the crazy part it was found out that top-level execs got her the job at NCSU including Mike Easley himself!! This is obvious breach of policy yet to mention integrity of the university. UNC System President Erskine Bowles has since told Oblinger to resign and fired Mary Easley.

The Easleys have been no stranger to frivolous spending. There are already under investigation regarding use of taxpayer money to go on trips. I don't know what the hell she did at State to warrant such a payout. I believe it was the name; her husband was the governor! That still doesn't condone the seedy hiring process and the large payout. Look, North Carolina is one of the poorer states in the country so why the hell you gonna pay her all that money for??? I am shamed by the actions of others at my school and I hope we can turn things around. But you know shyt like this happens all the time partly because there is no real regulations and also because money talks and bullshyt floats by. We the people need to be MORE self-evident....

Society at itz purest

Whaddup peoples!!!! I have recently been dabbling in art of reform. Well really I have been reading about different types of governments and societal structures that I feel would most benefit human race. The results would be reduced crime rate, no social economic status (sorry ballers) to name a few. It would not be tainted by mass media and all the negativity that surrounds a large part of the earth. I believe capitalism causes a lot of turmoil and money is the agent of this mayhem.

I sometimes refer to "The Village" by M. Night Shamalyan when discussing this topic No it is not a blockbuster hit but it provides a wonderful viewpoint of the society I am talking about. In the movie various adults from many professions are tired of societies trivals so they travel to a remote location and build a society. The village is surrounding by massive woods and to deter curious villagers from leaving(mostly children) the adults conjure about a story about monsters that live in the woods and will murder anyone who leaves. Now of course this is a small town and I dont know how it would work on a large scale. Everyone had a duty and there was no hoarding of goods partly because there was no money involved(see egalitarian in Wikipedia).The movie is clever in pointing out that(on a small scale) such society could exist.

There are many pros and cons about any governmental ideology but with regards to pure unadulterated kinship I am a proponent of communism of some form such as egalitarianism. Please feel free to leave ur comments cuz I wanna know what ya feelin..hotep(peace).

Bitches and Hoes(hate it or love it)

Good day to all! I know I know...you like "da god is on some other shyt with the title" but let me finish. I have been contemplating things in my personal life interacting with different people male and female. The question is why do some men call women Bitches and Hoes. Both terms are pejorative and extremely disrespectful. When itz used it has a litany of meanings some even go as far to say that sometimes when they say it it is not to disrespect.

In my experience a bitch is a bitch and a hoe is a hoe period. I don't use the term often but I have used it but not arbitrarily as others do. I am not exonerating myself I am intelligent I could have used another term but in the heat of the moment I used it. I am a blunt entity I call a spade a spade. The term hoe is the same way; I call it like I see it. I don't go around calling women hoes that is not my stylo ;I am a gentle(man). I don't agree with double standards either men and women can be hoes.

Both terms are vulgar and should be omitted in a conversation yet humans are emotional and when we are caught in verbal sparring we use whatever tools at our disposal. Is it right or wrong? I cant speak on that I am a proponent of relativity; you feel what is necessary at that time. Remember you can be forward and downright blunt but try to be mature and respectful . Peace to all my ladies and gents.

Can't we all just get along?

The title of this blog is a quote from the now infamous Rodney King who, in '91 was beaten severely by LAPD. It resonants a tone of compassion every time I hear it thus the reason why I chose to use it. I want to discuss the recent visit by President Obama to Cairo University in Egypt. The title of the speech was called "The New Beginning". I purport that it is a step towards the future; harmony amongst all people. He addresses various topics that include the Israel-Palestinian conflict, Women's rights, etc. but 90% of the oration was about (to) Muslims around the globe. I am not an overly religious person but my foundation of my faith is rooted in Christianity. I grew up going to church as most southern Black families did. I do not contend that I know everything about certain religions (and really not wanting to) but I can venture and Islam is being portrayed wrongly. I think partly by ignorance and partly through generalization from terrorist that proclaim Islam as their religion. I know that we all interpret meanings of text differently and truly I believe in all religion there have been bloodshed in the name of (insert here). The gist of the speech I think was for everyone to reevaluate their viewpoint of Muslims and Islam and conversely for Muslims to do the same for others.

I agree with President Obama that are differences make us the same and we should honor ones faith,opinion, etc. I don't believe these extremist that kills innocents in the name of ALLAH are truly fulfilling His word. I just think the end result of all conflict should be peace. Why would you want to be on edge all the time when, if you sit down and collectively resolve an issue tranquility can exist? There is a common ground in all conflict; no you may not get all your concession but it is better than nothing. I feel that whether or not you liked everything about his speech don't be Dr. Killjoy; see the overall message: peace and prosperity for all.

One statement he made was true to form to paraphrase -the past will keep you from moving forward. The time is now whatever differences you have had in the past it is just that leave it in the past and think for the future. I believe we should envision a future where people don't view others in a condescending manner and know that no one people are better than another.

love hater

hello all i am sitting here in front of the computer lissenin to some youtube recently broke up with my gurl of 3 yrs. yeah it sux but hey you know the world still turns. But nuff bout my situation i wanna talk about love real quick. The word is used a lot of times without meaning or substance. Maybe some people get it confused or maybe its just their perception of what love is. After 3 yrs I feel it is something that is relative to your situation. Love is a complex thing; it can mean a lot of things to a lot of people. I cannot give you a definitive answer to what love is; shyt i thought i had love and shyt bites me n da azz. Riddle me this: is love like energy it cannot be created nor destroyed? We have all loved(or thought we loved) someone and it ends up not working out. Does that mean you will neva find happiness? Hell to the nahhh it comes from within but exude ur emotions to someone special and hopefully they will reciprucate.

They say time heals all wounds and I was told that absence makes the heart grow fonder. Maybe but when you yearn for someone it is hard to hold back emotions and you dont wanna let go but I understand know that if it is meant to be it shall be. If you love someone enuff if need be let them go...and see what happens.